- Ask your children for their success of the day;
- Have a bedtime ritual, such as a prayer or conversation to give them strength to overcome challenges;
- No complaining unless it is to the source and they have one or two solutions to the issue;
- Teach them that their response to an event leads to an outcome, so choose an optimistic response (Gordon calls it the E + P = O rule)
- Teach them to be thankful every day - it keeps them from stressing too much.
Thursday, December 03, 2009
Positive Kids
Monday, November 30, 2009
Giving Thanks 2009
Monday, November 02, 2009
Community Input - Oct 09
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Processing vs. Doing
Monday, October 26, 2009
More Action
Friday, October 23, 2009
Language Dancing
Having worked in K-12 districts most of my career, I have had the opportunity to see the whole picture. That is, I have been able to watch kids go from Kindergarten to college. I have watched then grow, develop and learn throughout their time in school. I also have had the opportunity to visit with college students about their school experiences.
Disrupting Class, while written to discuss education in the future, had some interesting research around babies. I knew I needed to share it with the community and I have finally put those words on paper. It should appear in the Gazette one of these days.
I hope every young parent gets the opportunity to read it and respond.
Here it is, Language Dancing.
Language Dancing
“Goochie Goochie Goo,” “Goochie Goochie Goo,”
If you have a baby or are going to have a baby, know someone who has a baby or will be having a baby, this article is for you. The number of strollers I see traveling the sidewalks of Guernsey indicates this is important to many folks. Parents, grandparents and great-grandparents, this is for you.
“By some estimates, 98% of education spending occurs after the basic intellectual capacities of children have been mostly determined.”
“…a significant portion of a person’s intellectual capacity is determined in his or her first 36 months.”
That research alone should get this article cut out and hanging on refrigerators all over town. But let me tell you the story, and you decide.
Everybody is researching education these days. You can’t open a newspaper, magazine or book without someone quoting statistics about what education is doing or not doing. The studies that led to the statements above come from a significant sampling of parents and their children in their homes for the first two and a half years of the children’s lives. Based on that research, it was determined that parents speak an average of 1500 words per hour to their infant children. That’s the average. Talkative parents average 2100 words, taking the bottom numbers down around 600 words.
This comes out to the difference between hearing 48 million words and 13 million words.
But, the story gets better. “Interestingly, the most powerful of these words, in terms of subsequent cognitive achievements, seemed to be those spoken in the first year of life---when there was no visible evidence that the child could understand what the parents were saying.”
I have always known that reading to your child before they enter school or pre-school is very important to their success and self esteem, but this research got my attention.
So, what is this “extra talk,” or “language dancing,” that is so important? It is face-to-face, adult, sophisticated, chatty language. It is talking to the child as if they were listening, comprehending and fully responding to the comments. It can occur anytime, in a shopping cart, folding laundry, changing a diaper or simply cuddling and talking. It takes the form of commenting on what the child is doing, what the parent is doing and planning, thinking aloud and just chatting.
It is not, “business talk,” like, “Finish your food,” or Hold out your hands,” or “Get in the car.” It is also not “background noise.” If your child is lying in front of the TV listening to a purple dragon, it is having an insignificant impact on their intellect.
Here is what is happening when” language dancing” is taking place. Our brains have about a bazillion neurons or brain cells. These guys spend their days and nights sending messages back and forth, like teenagers text messaging. Each neuron has an axon, or filament that hangs out sending signals and dendrites, which are like “baseball mitts,” catching signals. Little electrical signals cause all of this pitching and catching. When this “practice” goes on between neurons, just like with baseball players, they get better and more efficient at pitching and catching.
“Extra talk,” or “language dancing,” in the first three years of life, with a focus in the first 12 months pushes the efficiency of the brain’s ability to pitch and catch up about 3.7 times, give or take a catch or two. Simply put, the child has been “wired” to think in more sophisticated ways, and the payoff later in life is immense.
I know, I know, you are thinking, “Griffith has finally gone around the bend.” That may have happened a long time ago, but it has nothing to do with the importance of this research and language dancing. As a member of the Board of Directors of the National Association of Secondary School Principals, I meet with 24 other administrators from across the nation four times a year. Part of our work involves professional development and homework. Can you believe it? Someone gives me homework?
Anyway, one book they assigned me was, Disrupting Class, by Christensen, Horn and Johnson. The book’s major premise is that education has to think beyond brick and mortar to where we might be in 10 or 20 years. It speaks to disrupting how we do things now to get to how we might do things in the future. I was able to spend a morning with Michael Horn, one of the authors, discussing the book and their findings. A large part of the conversation centered on the ability of kids to think in ways they will need to in the future and nested in that conversation was the language dancing and preparing children for the rigor of education and life in their future.
Since that day, I have been pondering how to share that thinking and my thinking on the subject to my world.
I just did, and I apologize to the authors if I stumbled on some of their words. I think I had more, “business talk,” than, “language dancing,” when I was an infant.
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Stewardship
“Democracy is both demanding and inspiring … (it) is about who we are as individuals and how we live together as families, friends, neighbors, and citizens.”
The above quote comes from a page on the Institute for Educational Inquiry website. As I looked for information on stewardship, I came across this and thought it was a good lead in to describing the responsibilities we have as educators.
Stewardship is one of the four core principles of the Agenda for Education in a Democracy. It can be defined as the careful and responsible management of something entrusted to one's care. As communities, we are responsible for the education of our students. Too often, segments of that community either neglect their responsibility or point the finger at other constituents as the reason our children are not finding success. Stewardship is realizing we are all given certain gifts and with those gifts certain responsibilities. A commitment to excellence and toward stewardship from all involved is the key to providing our students an excellent education and a head start on a successful life.
Monday, October 19, 2009
Community Advisory
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Be Proactive
Wednesday, October 07, 2009
Be unreasonable
Friday, September 18, 2009
Rethinking Education
Saturday, August 15, 2009
Back to School 09
This article ran in the Guernsey Gazette Back to School issue last week.
As I thought about the theme for this year, “A journey through the lands of learning,” I tried to come up with something that reflected that. Other than a taste for classic rock music (Journey – “Don’t Stop Believing”), I was struggling to find something to write on. Then it struck me to talk about journeys in general, so I looked up some quotes to get started.
Author Ursula LeGuin is quoted as saying, “It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.” And tennis great Arthur Ashe echoed that sentiment when he said, “Success is a journey, not a destination. The doing is often more important than the outcome.” So often, we focus on the end result that we forget to enjoy and learn from the journey itself. So much learning is experiential and the days between the beginning and the end (of a journey, reaching for a goal, a school year) provide much time and opportunity for learning.
Journeys and learning adventures certainly have some things in common. For one, they both begin somewhere. Journeys begin with a destination or a determination to go on one. For example, we may decide to take a trip to New York and then figure out how to get there. Or, we may just decide to “go” and let fate lead us on a journey. As we progress in helping our students find success, we begin the journey by looking at the data in our possession. Whether this is test scores from last year, grades, surveys, etc., we have a starting point to begin the process of improvement.
Another item in common is the use of tools to get to where we are going. In an actual physical journey, we might use our feet, a car, a plane or some other mode of transportation. Those on a metaphysical journey might use their mind and meditation tools. On the learning journey, teachers use a variety of strategies and resources to help students become independent learners. Students too, have tools to help them learn better, including knowledge of their strengths and learning styles. Just as there are multiple ways to get most places, there are many ways to help students learn. The key is trying different tools until one is found that works.
And finally, all journeys have an end. However, the end is really only the beginning of another journey. Learning is the same thing; it never really ends. A professor of mine once told us that we were “either green and growing or ripe and rotting,” referring to the continuous process of life-long learning. Our learning community must work together to help our students realize that the world they will enter upon graduation is one that will require continuous learning. As futurist Alvin Toffler stated, “The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.” We cannot stress enough the importance of “learning how to learn.” Let’s all enjoy the journey.
Friday, August 07, 2009
Positive Psychology
Thursday, August 06, 2009
Optimism for Life
Wednesday, August 05, 2009
value-added
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Creating Mistakes
I came across this advice from John Wooden today in an e-zine article from Early to Rise. Wooden said, "If you're not making mistakes, then you're not doing anything."
I found that quite interesting as I think many people, myself included at times, hesitate to step outside their comfort zone for fear of making a mistake. But it is precisely the possibility of erring when we do step outside that zone that helps us grow in whatever it is we're doing.
One of the reasons mistakes are looked upon so unfavorably is the reaction of others. The author of article, Matt Furey, wrote "So many people do everything they can to avoid making mistakes - yet mistakes are the corrective feedback we need to help us reach our goals. Better to take action and correct mistakes while you're in motion than to sit idle trying to figure out how not to make a wrong move."
I once read of someone who said there are no mistakes, only learning experiences. If we choose to learn from the experience, it can be a powerful way to grow. If we lament the fact we made a mistake, we will find ways to "stay close to the vest" instead of venturing into the unknown.
Teddy Roosevelt once said,
"It is not the critic who counts: not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, because there is no effort without error or shortcoming, but who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, who spends himself for a worthy cause; who, at the best, knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat."